The secret to helping students develop grit
Kids and Grit
You are barely into the school year and already you have a sense about which students will be successful and which ones will be slackers… don’t you?
Are you usually right?
How do you know? What are the characteristics of the children who stay the course and succeed?
How are they different from students who give up and fail?
Angela Duckworth, Ph.D and author of the book, Grit; The Power of Passion Perseverance, left a high paying management job to teach math to seventh graders in the New York City Public Schools. She soon found that the students who were successful were not necessarily the students with the highest IQ or the best home environment. The deciding factor wasn’t luck or talent. Instead, she found that they were the students who had an inner strength and resolve that others didn’t, often despite other obvious disadvantages. She named that inner strength grit and has spent the last several years researching and measuring that quality. Here’s what she has found: “Grit is about a goal you care about so much that it organizes and gives meaning to almost everything you do. And grit is holding steadfast to that goal. Even when you fall down. Even when you screw up. Even when progress toward that goal is halting or slow.”
So how does that relate to the kids at your school? In the long run it relates to why they are there. The student who understands and commits to their why is invariably the one who has grit. They care. They are invested. They believe that they are moving closer to their goal even when they experience failure and disappointment. Even when the work is hard. They have a vision for the future and they are committed.
You Can Help Students Develop Grit
So how do you help students develop grit? Or is it just something that you are born with? No doubt some of it is determined by temperament and the role models that students have in their lives. But as significant adults in our students lives we can also help children understand and develop grit. Here are two ways:
- Help students understand and set goals, in every area of their lives. Academic goals. Relationship goals. Physical goals. Here’s the key though; go beyond the usual setting of goals. Teach children how to reach those dream big goals by setting small goals leading to large goals. Then teach them the importance of learning from mistakes and failure.
- Be the encourager in your student’s lives. Everyone needs someone who believes in them and by seeing the future possibilities and sharing that vision with your students you can help them shape their future as well.
Elementary School Counselor Resource
The Elementary School Counselor’s Book of Lesson Plans
Thirty-two lesson plans with activities, discussion starters, assessments and questionnaires to keep students engaged all year while developing critical thinking skills and growth mindset.
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