Growing Generous Hearts: How Elementary Counselors Can Teach Giving and Kindness

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Elementary school counselors play an important role in shaping the social and emotional growth of students. One essential character trait to nurture is generosity—the ability and willingness to give time, energy, resources, or kindness to others without expecting anything in return. Teaching generosity helps students build empathy, strengthen relationships, and create a more positive school…

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Work Smarter, Not Harder: Teaching Students How to Learn Effectively

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As elementary school counselors, part of our role is helping students build not just social-emotional skills but also strong learning habits. When students learn how to learn, they become more confident, engaged, and resilient in the classroom. Below are six key strategies counselors can teach—and practical ways to integrate them into small groups, classroom lessons,…

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Unlocking Motivation: Helping Students Choose Success

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In today’s educational environment, we are more aware than ever that student motivation and engagement is essential for lasting learning. I can’t tell you how many times as a school counselor, I had discussions with teachers, parents and kids about being motivated. However, I’m afraid we rarely discussed how important intrinsic motivation is vs. extrinsic…

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“That’s Not Fair!” and Other Ploys: Turning Student Pushback Into Positive Growth

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As elementary school counselors, we often encounter familiar phrases that students use as emotional shields, attempts to avoid accountability, or ways to test boundaries. These “ploys” may seem like resistance, but they’re actually great teaching moments. Here’s how to respond to five common student ploys with empathy, clarity, and growth-focused strategies. “It’s Not Fair.” What…

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