Self Limiting Beliefs
Do you have some big goals?
Are you making progress?
Or are you making excuses?
How long have you been saying you were going to write that book? Start your own business? Try a new career path? Get out of debt? Get in shape?
Maybe you think you tried and it didn’t pan out. You wrote a few chapters and quit. Sent the finished copy off to a publisher and got rejected. Applied for another job and didn’t get the call back. Created a business plan but couldn’t find the cash to get started. Tried a diet and gave it up.
Maybe you figure goals and dreams like that are for other people. People who are lucky. People who are really talented or smart. People who have willpower. People who have connections.
Truth or Fiction?
What if I told you none of those things are necessary for you to be successful in accomplishing your dream? What if I told you that you are sabotaging your own success with your beliefs?
Our beliefs are so wired into our brains that many times we aren’t even aware of how they guide our steps. I spent ten years after writing my first Wyatt the Wonder Dog book, waiting for someone to appear in my life and tell me how to get it published. What if I told you that NO ONE like that ever came along and I could easily still be waiting for something to happen if I hadn’t changed my thinking?
The first step to accomplishing any dream is to examine your beliefs about yourself and make sure you aren’t sabotaging your God given ability.
Beliefs that Keep You Stuck
Here are three common beliefs that wreak havoc with our ability to move forward. Do any of these sound familiar?
- Do you believe that you don’t deserve it? Is your image of yourself that of someone who can only do average things in an average world? Are you someone who can’t possibly be so extraordinary as to step outside the parameters of “normal”? Do you feel that you aren’t worthy of success?
- Do you believe that comfort in your present situation, even an uncomfortable present situation, is better than venturing into unknown territory? Have you been miserable so long that you’ve become accustomed to it and actually prefer it to stepping out into the unknown?
- Do you believe that if you are successful you will lose something or someone? Perhaps family, friends or co-workers would be unhappy, jealous, resentful, or disappointed? Are you afraid that you will no longer fit in? Will you lose your supportive relationships?
Mindset is Key
What we believe about ourselves shapes who we are. It shapes the goals we set, the path we take and the energy we put into accomplishing our dreams. If we believe ourselves to be inadequate to meet the challenge or incapable of pushing our limits then we will be stuck doing what we’ve always been doing and getting the same results we’ve always gotten. If we wait for others to approve and give support or for the stars to perfectly align before we move forward in our plan, we will always be waiting.
One of the great icons of the motivational world, Zig Ziglar used to say that he was so positive and so sure of accomplishing his goals that he would, “go after Moby Dick in a rowboat and take the tartar sauce with me.”
What about you?
Can you envision your goal?
Can you envision you in the future accomplishing your goal? Are your beliefs inline with success?
Are you so confident, so determined that you would take off after Moby Dick and bring the tartar sauce?
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